Monday, February 24, 2014

Week 36...less than a month to go!!!

Week 36!  Holy crap!  Holy crap!  I think the title of our baby blog has been so fitting this entire pregnancy.  There have been so many "holy crap" moments throughout the past 7-8 months!!  From finding out at the very beginning, to the first ultrasound, to the first time baby boy moved, to putting together the nursery, to realizing how close we are, to sooo many more events, there's been a gazillion moments where we've said "holy crap!" or "this sh*t is gettin' real!!"  There are still so many times when I question if we're truly ready...I mean, we're having a BABY for cryin' out loud.  Only one more month until all our preparation or lack thereof is put to the test!

I feel like there's so much I/we could write about.  There was a lot to still catch up on for the week 32 entry and now another month has passed with a million more baby details behind us!  I'll start with our recent baby appointments.  We had an exciting one right around week 31 where we got to have a surprise ultrasound!  We hadn't seen baby on screen since our anatomy scan back in October so it was cool to do it again.  Although I barely got to see anything because the screen was pointed towards the doctor and Aron.  But Aron assured me our baby boy was in there and adorable! :)  The reason we ended up having the ultrasound was that I was getting a little anxious about all the downward pressure I'd been feeling the week prior to the appointment.  First-time-pregnant fears!  Our OB is awesome though and was quick to offer both an internal and external ultrasound just to check everything out.  Turns out baby boy was just very very low in my belly and also...in a breech position!  Not worrisome since we still had plenty of time for him to shift into position, but good to know.  Good to know it was his big butt causing me all the discomfort. :-p

By the time we went to our next appointment at 33 weeks, baby boy was head down!  We did another quick check up ultrasound (again...I didn't even get to see him! Our doctor was too quick with the machine! argh!) and the OB confirmed he was head down...very, very down.  Translate: still very, very uncomfortable!  But good news that he was already in position for the final countdown...not to say he might not move again, but as space is running out in there, it's highly unlikely.  I wish we would have had time to request a quick ultrasound printout, but we were pushing the limits of our 15 minute appointment already.

We just had our week 35 appointment last week, which went really well.  We saw a different OB because ours was out for the week.  We've now seen 3 different OBs at the practice, which is actually kind of comforting because any one of them could pop up at the foot of my bed when we're in labor!  It's nice to at least know a few of the faces.  Now that baby boy is so big, the doctor was able to point out exactly where his butt, knees, and feet were.  We were fortunate that he was so squirmy during the appointment so she could feel quite a bit of him pressing out.  Also during the appointment, I was surprised with my Group B strep screening.  Even though it was sort of on my radar, I wasn't expecting it that day...and for those of you who have been pregnant you'll know why this test is even more of a surprise than other routine ones!  Ha!  We have another appointment tomorrow (and we'll be going every week now!) where we'll find out the results of the screening.

A few weeks ago, I also scared myself into thinking I had pre-eclampsia.  All of a sudden one day, my hands and feet swelled up HUGE, and I started reading all about swelling and of course, any possibly related problems.  I'd been lucky the entire pregnancy not to have any swelling at all until that day, so it freaked me out.  But I was reassured at our appointment that I'm just fine and it's normal swelling.  No high blood pressure and no protein in my urine.  Phew!  Now, how many more times can I freak myself out in the next month before baby is born?!  The swelling went down quite a bit for a few weeks, but now it's back and seems to be back for good.  I need to remember to take some time every day at work to put my feet up.  I also had to take my wedding rings off, which is so sad!  I can't wait to wear my beautiful rings again.

What else has been going on?  My left shoulder/upper back has been killing me the past few weeks, and I'm sure it's because I've been primarily sleeping on my left side.  I'm not normally a side sleeper and I think my body isn't loving it.  Luckily, I have a Massage Envy account so I've been able to get fairly regular prenatal massages.  Can't complain about that!!  I need to remember to do more icing to bring the inflammation down.  I'm soooo looking forward to being able to sleep on my back again!

A few weeks ago, I think during week 33, there was a stretch of days where I was really nauseous and dizzy.  I ended up taking a day off of work just to chill and relax and get the symptoms to subside.  From what I've read, both of these things are pretty common, from a squished-up tummy, extra heartburn, and the constant flood of hormones.  It lasted 3-4 days and then I felt much better again.  I'm lucky to still have a ton of sick time to use for days when I feel miserable.  That week I also got pretty moody and emotional between feeling really crummy and stressing out about last-minute preparations and wrapping up my last few weeks at work....luckily the moodiness has also passed for which I'm sure Aron is very grateful!!  He's really been such an amazing partner during this whole journey.  He brushes it all off, but he's been there for me every second, whether I'm extremely happy (and possibly/probably annoying!) or feeling blue.  I honestly don't know how I would have made it through this pregnancy if I was going at it alone.  I know so many women do and I have so much more respect for them now!!  It takes a whole lot of guts and strength, sometimes just to get through the day to day.  I sent Aron out to go drinking with his buddy Arun on Saturday night, figuring he could use some time away from me and my craziness. :)  Plus, I have a feeling boys nights will be somewhat limited in the next few weeks and will certainly be non existent for a few weeks after baby is born!

In happy pregnancy news, our nursery is now finished!  Next week I'll post some pictures.  We also have the glider chair, the bassinet, and the baby monitor set up in our bedroom, and the swing and bouncer set up in our family room.  We've been turning the baby gear on to get the dogs used to the new sounds, but both pups are pretty indifferent at this point.  I don't think we'll have any problems at all with the pets and baby boy, but we're trying a few "prep" things just for the heck of it.  We also got the car seat installed in my car this past weekend!  Now that "full term" is looming on my mind, I want to be totally ready...at least with the easy things.  Some of the books say we're full term NOW (yay! I like those books!) and some say it really isn't until week 38 now.  Who knows...and who cares!  Baby is almost here either way!!  I'm not-so-secretly hoping he arrives early, but only if he's really ready.  I need his brain to be as developed as possible pre-birth, to prepare him for a lifetime of being a nerd like his mommy and daddy!  :)  But if he happens to think his brain is ready 2 weeks before his due date...I'd SO be okay with that.  I mostly hear stories of first-born babies being late, but every now and then I hear an early-arrival story which gives me hope.  Hehe.  I can't wait to meet our son!!!!

Time for some pictures!  Oh man, my weight gain jumped UP in the past few weeks.  I've now hit 30 pounds gained...eeek!  Still within the perfectly normal range, but not exactly where I'd hoped to be.  Especially since these last few pounds have definitely not been baby weight gain, but rather double-chin and pudgy-arm weight gain.  Agh!  More salad, less pizza. :)

Here are some shots from Week 32.  The blue dress looks so different on me now!  Check back in the blog and see how little my belly was when I wore it to my work Christmas party!

Big blue belly!
 Bare belly! Aron was snapping shots as I was readjusting my jeans belly band and I really liked this one. :) 
 Covered belly.  This tank top has survived the entire pregnancy...only 1 month to go!
We're having "casual clothes February" at work which means I can get away with comfy dresses at work this month!















Somehow we missed week 33 (what was that I was saying about being so moody and cranky?!), but here's a few pics from Week 34.

Another comfy dress!  90% of my wardrobe is still made up of the maternity hand-me-downs that 3 of my girlfriends have given me.  I'm so blessed!

Man, I'm as big as a house here but I love this family photo (minus the hubby)!  Rory's being a little antisocial on the back bookshelf, but at least he made an appearance. :)  Baby boy is going to have to learn at a young age to stake his claim on the couch!






Finally, here are some Week 35 pics.  Pink for Valentine's Day weekend!  Aron was playing around with his camera a bunch that day so there's some fun black and white and sepia shots too.

Baby belly is still growing a bit!
I love this one! Aron caught me laughing at something baby boy was doing in my belly.
 Pensive.  Sometimes in my day to day world I don't think I look that pregnant, but then I see photos like this and it really hits me...I'm making a person inside my body!
 Puppies! Ignore our dying lawn...stupid California drought!!
One more pregnant in pink shot!





Saturday, February 22, 2014

Babies and love everywhere!

Note on this entry...I've been composing this one for MONTHS now and I'm finally getting around to posting!  And so many new things keep happening while this has been in the draft stage!  Re-reading everything makes me happy all over again that so many wonderful things have happened to the people in our lives throughout the past year!

Here goes...

Over the past eight months, so many exciting things have happened to our friends and family!!  We've been very lucky to be a part of these incredible events and wanted to share a few pictures and stories.  Starting in June of this year (er...last year!), at least one of our friends had a baby every month!!  I have so many mommies in my life now that I can go to for baby advice.  And in other happy news, two gals in my life got engaged in the fall!  More on that below the cute baby pics. :)  And even more updates - two of our friends are now pregnant!!

First up for the baby events, one of my oldest friends, Lisa, and her husband Seth, welcomed their baby girl Kiyomi in June.  Sadly, I haven't been able to meet the little darling yet; maybe next year!  But I have been able to see some really cute photos.  Here's one of her in the 4th of July outfit I sent her.  How sweet is she?!  Since Kiyomi is the oldest of the babies this year, she's been the first to hit all the milestones.  I can't wait to meet her in person!  Kiyomi is a little halfie baby like Aron and I will have...I only hope our son is as cute as she is!


Next up, my cousin RaChelle had her baby boy, Rekker, in July.  I was finally able to meet him up in Spokane at my baby shower in December.  Here are a few photos of the cutie pie (if you're following our blog, you'll recognize that first pic since I've already posted about the shower :)!  He wasn't feeling too great (ear infection) on this day but still managed to be a trooper and hardly cried during the shower.  This first picture is with me, RaChelle, Randi and our Grandma.  Also exciting in RaChelle's life - she got secretly married to her man, Justin, last month!!  Their 2013 was pretty awesome. :)



In August, our friend Sara and her husband Brian welcomed their baby girl, Calliope.  She's adorable!  I first got to meet her when I was in Seattle in November, and then Aron got to meet her at Christmastime.  There is a pic of Aron, me and Calliope from December but it's not so flattering...so here's one of me and Calliope in November.  I look a little goofy but Calliope is cute!  In December she showed off how awesome she is at rolling over by herself.  Babies grow up so fast!!


In September, my friend Michaela and her husband Joe had their baby girl, Emilyn.  This was their second baby, younger sister to big brother Lincoln.  I got to meet baby Emi in November when they took a road trip out to San Diego.  They stayed with us and we had a great weekend!  Michaela and I went to Babies R Us and she showed me her top picks for everything.  I know that a lot of what Aron and I decide on will be what works for us, but it's nice to have a starting point!  Here's a photo of Michaela, Emi, and me at Dog Beach...Emi was a little tired of all the pictures.  I don't know why we didn't take more photos during the weekend with their family!


In October, two of our friends had babies!  Lulu and Clement had their baby boy Theodore (calling him Ted) and Lilian and Eric had their baby girl Sabrina.  We haven't had a chance to meet Ted yet (DC is so far away!) but we did see Clement last month year and he filled us in on how Ted's doing and life with a new baby.  I love hearing new-parent stories; it's good prep for us!  We got to meet Sabrina the day after she was born at the hospital.  She was so incredibly tiny...I can't believe I'll be holding a son of my own that small in 3 months!

Here's a photo of baby Ted that the Kam's sent out and below that are a few photos of me with Sabrina at the hospital and one of the happy family.







In November, two other friends had their babies!  My friend and coworker Corinne and husband Tyler had baby girl Elliana (their second baby after big brother Kai!) and my bestie Amanda and husband Chris had baby boy Charlie.  Amanda's due date was originally 3 weeks before Corinne's but Corinne's little girl decided to arrive early and Amanda's little boy decided to arrive late so their due dates sort of swapped!  I've had the chance to see adorable Ellie a few times now and I was able to spend two days with cutie pie Charlie while we were up in Moscow over the holidays.  Here are some pics of me and Aron and Charlie, followed by one of me with Ellie.  They're both such good babies (at least when we were around...)! :)



(oh! My heart! I can't wait to see Aron with our son!!!)


(Charlie was not so happy in this posed photo with me and his mama, Manda!)


In December, my friend Yesenia's sister, Blanca, had a baby boy they named Christian.  I've had the chance to meet Blanca a few times and Aron and I went to her shower to celebrate their baby boy.  Congrats to Blanca and their growing family!!  And speaking of Yesenia, she is expecting a boy boy due in July!!  It will be fun to raise our sons together!

I *think* that wraps up all the baby news for 2013!  There were so many other people from different times in my life (old high school acquaintances, college pals) that also had babies (thank you, facebook!) or got pregnant last year.  Congrats to all of them - 2014 is going to be just as exciting!!

In other awesome news, my baby sister got engaged last November!!  I was able to fly up for the surprise party that her fiance, Erick, organized.  It was so much fun and I loved seeing her so happy and in love.  He really pulled off the surprise and his proposal was perfect.  They're getting married this August and I get to be Matron of Honor! (WHY do they call it that?!)  Here are some pics from the party.  Congrats, Randi and Erick!  I'm so excited for you two!!!!




My friend and coworker Jane also got engaged last fall!  Her ring is spectacular - super blingy and it catches the light every time she moves her hand.  I love looking at it at work!  Jane and Jeremy are getting married in Bora Bora this November.  Sigh...how perfect does that sound?!

And one last piece of exciting news...some good friends of ours here in San Diego are expecting their second baby!  I won't name names because I'm not sure if they've told everyone, but I will say they sent an awesome email announcing the pregnancy!  Everyone is so creative these days.  I'm lucky my hubby created such a cute announcement when we shared the news that we were expecting!  We are very excited for our friends and their growing family.

Ok that finally wraps up this entry!!  I really hope I didn't forget any 2013 babies...or engagements...or announced pregnancies...!!  We're so happy for our friends and family and can't wait to see what this year will bring.